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	<title>Comments on: Don&#8217;t Be A &#8220;People Pleaser&#8221;!!</title>
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	<description>A high percentage of agents are simply lead starved.  They just dont have enough clients to work in the first place.</description>
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		<title>By: Clint</title>
		<link>http://www.realestateclientreferrals.com/blogs/2009/01/dont-be-a-people-pleaser/comment-page-1/#comment-2296</link>
		<dc:creator>Clint</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 12:28:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for stopping by!! Much appreciated!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for stopping by!! Much appreciated!</p>
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		<title>By: dimagromovfoto</title>
		<link>http://www.realestateclientreferrals.com/blogs/2009/01/dont-be-a-people-pleaser/comment-page-1/#comment-2091</link>
		<dc:creator>dimagromovfoto</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2009 16:43:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just wanted to say HI. I found your blog a few days ago on Technorati and have been reading it over the past few days.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just wanted to say HI. I found your blog a few days ago on Technorati and have been reading it over the past few days.</p>
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		<title>By: Clint</title>
		<link>http://www.realestateclientreferrals.com/blogs/2009/01/dont-be-a-people-pleaser/comment-page-1/#comment-1911</link>
		<dc:creator>Clint</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 13:38:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesome!!! Thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome!!! Thanks!</p>
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		<title>By: LenaShopogolik</title>
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		<dc:creator>LenaShopogolik</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2009 09:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just wanted to say HI. I found your blog a few days ago on Technorati and have been reading it over the past few days.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just wanted to say HI. I found your blog a few days ago on Technorati and have been reading it over the past few days.</p>
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		<title>By: With This Diet I Was Able to Lose T h i r t y P o u n d s in Only a Month</title>
		<link>http://www.realestateclientreferrals.com/blogs/2009/01/dont-be-a-people-pleaser/comment-page-1/#comment-186</link>
		<dc:creator>With This Diet I Was Able to Lose T h i r t y P o u n d s in Only a Month</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2009 09:38:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, good post. I have been thinking about this issue,so thanks for sharing. I&#039;ll certainly be subscribing to your blog. Keep up the good work</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, good post. I have been thinking about this issue,so thanks for sharing. I&#8217;ll certainly be subscribing to your blog. Keep up the good work</p>
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		<title>By: Clint</title>
		<link>http://www.realestateclientreferrals.com/blogs/2009/01/dont-be-a-people-pleaser/comment-page-1/#comment-135</link>
		<dc:creator>Clint</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 12:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ben, I think you made a smart move! Im a fairly trusting guy. But, based on what you explained here, I dont even trust this buyer. Good call.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ben, I think you made a smart move! Im a fairly trusting guy. But, based on what you explained here, I dont even trust this buyer. Good call.</p>
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		<title>By: Ben Kukkee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ben Kukkee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 19:50:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I walked away from a client who was looking for a 2 million dollar commercial property. It was painful to do, but in the end I think my instincts were correct. He was looking for 2000 square feet to open a restaurant, but he wouldn&#039;t give me any details about the concept of the restaurant, the demographic it cadered to or the price point of the product. He said he had financing, but he couldn&#039;t provide any details, just that money was not an issue. I prefer to have people pre-approved before I even type a search into MLS for them. He said that he was working for executives in another country and he didn&#039;t have any control over the business decisions they might make when they are introduced to the property, but he was also a part owner. Further, and most important, he wouldn&#039;t sign a representation agreement, even though it was only significant to the specific properties I offered to show him. He was non-commital and at the same time very forward saying, &quot;I&#039;m not going to screw you!&quot; This man was probably working with 15 other agents and wouldn&#039;t have respected any one of them. 

It&#039;s best to recognize it from the start that if someone doesn&#039;t sign with you, then more often then not, they don&#039;t want to do business with you.  I wished him luck and offered to refer him to an agent who would work with him without signing. He was short and rude with me, even though I was trying to help him. I sourced a lot of helpful information for him and at the end, kept it all for myself, all because he wouldn&#039;t sign. It&#039;s best to recognize that if someone doesn&#039;t respect you in the beginning, then they will not respect you in the end. It always sucks to lose a potential deal, especially one that big, but it sucks even more to have someone milk you for information and not want to do business with you when it&#039;s time to put in an offer. Get your agreements signed, be honest, do good work and eventually the good clients will come to find you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I walked away from a client who was looking for a 2 million dollar commercial property. It was painful to do, but in the end I think my instincts were correct. He was looking for 2000 square feet to open a restaurant, but he wouldn&#8217;t give me any details about the concept of the restaurant, the demographic it cadered to or the price point of the product. He said he had financing, but he couldn&#8217;t provide any details, just that money was not an issue. I prefer to have people pre-approved before I even type a search into MLS for them. He said that he was working for executives in another country and he didn&#8217;t have any control over the business decisions they might make when they are introduced to the property, but he was also a part owner. Further, and most important, he wouldn&#8217;t sign a representation agreement, even though it was only significant to the specific properties I offered to show him. He was non-commital and at the same time very forward saying, &#8220;I&#8217;m not going to screw you!&#8221; This man was probably working with 15 other agents and wouldn&#8217;t have respected any one of them. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s best to recognize it from the start that if someone doesn&#8217;t sign with you, then more often then not, they don&#8217;t want to do business with you.  I wished him luck and offered to refer him to an agent who would work with him without signing. He was short and rude with me, even though I was trying to help him. I sourced a lot of helpful information for him and at the end, kept it all for myself, all because he wouldn&#8217;t sign. It&#8217;s best to recognize that if someone doesn&#8217;t respect you in the beginning, then they will not respect you in the end. It always sucks to lose a potential deal, especially one that big, but it sucks even more to have someone milk you for information and not want to do business with you when it&#8217;s time to put in an offer. Get your agreements signed, be honest, do good work and eventually the good clients will come to find you.</p>
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